No worries, the world of modular can be a confusing place at times!
3x MIA (the one you've got in your rack) https://modulargrid.net/e/happy-nerding-3x-mia-black is a module that can be used as a mixer or attenuator/attenuverter. 3x VCA https://modulargrid.net/e/happy-nerding-3x-vca-black (which looks almost identical to 3x MIA) is a VCA and mixer. The two modules are easy to mix up at a quick glance.
The dual xfade that I suggested https://modulargrid.net/e/happy-nerding-dual-xfade is a CV-controllable crossfader, but it can double as a VCA if you use only one of the inputs and adjust the knobs appropriately. The Doepfer A-133-2 https://modulargrid.net/e/doepfer-a-133-2 is different in that it's a bipolar VCA and can not only modulate the amplitude of a signal, but also it's polarity, which allows for other creative uses and ring modulation. The CalSynth 2VCA https://modulargrid.net/e/calsynth-2vca is a more standard VCA but also allows continuous adjustment of the VCA response between linear and exponential, a very handy feature to have. It also can act as a mixer of the two channels. Those three stand out to me as good 4HP VCA options, each with their own unique features!